Nah. She doesn't get a pass because others paid for the abuse. I think she should go to jail AND the others pursued. Advocating for minors takes many forms. And acknowledging the grooming behaviors of adults who ingratiate themselves with children, is just one.
To your larger point about the sexualization of young girls; it is a serious problem in our society. IMO, though, it is simply a continuum of the objectification of all that is female. We've come a long way since women were men's property, but not far enough.